This week I learnt the need for patience and understanding in any work sphere. People have different ways of communicating and expressing themselves and at times they may seem quite hurtful and insulting. One needs to understand the base nature of their workmates and look past it. Also the impulse to retaliate can be particularly strong. Therefore one needs to take time out to get their temper under control. Remove yourself from the immediate vicinity of the aggravator and do whatever it takes to cool down. After which you can rethink the incident with a cool mind. If possible ask someone who is unbiased to think it through with you. Continue reading
Tuesday the 14th of February, year 2012 and am in the office glued to the computer. It’s Valentines Day and on my way to work florists were everywhere and most women were wearing something red. If it wasn’t an outfit, it was accessories, a handbag or even hair clips. Am wearing old school rubber shoes and a t-shirt… and not paying much attention to this day called Valentines Day. Continue reading